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Objectives:
A. Define communication.
B.
List six (6) rules of communicating with a supervisor.
TO THE STUDENT: Read
and study this information sheet and then complete the student activities at
the end of this module.
What is
communication?
Communication is an exchange of information, ideas and feelings. Communication can be verbal, but it can also be written or merely symbols and graphs.
Communicating with your
employer
"Communicating" with your employer is an interesting and perhaps frightening thought. It is essential that you understand your supervisor's expectations of you and your work.
Do not
break the cardinal rule of dealing with your boss: Don't start a fight you
can't win! Does this mean you should avoid all conflict with superiors?
Absolutely not! Your effectiveness in disagreeing with your employer can be
critical to your career.
Who
hasn't had words with his/her supervisor at one time or another? Avoiding
disagreements can be helpful in the short term, but over the years you may lose
sleep and have a lower self-image. Your employer will be deprived of
information that might help improve his/her own job performance. Here are the
rules to remember when communicating with your employer.
Before a confrontation, try to
determine your employer's mood. If he/she is in a bad mood or very busy, it is
not a good idea to ask for something.
There are other keys to timing. Do
not approach your employer when he/she is on deadline. Do not initiate a
conversation right before lunch when everyone is apt to be distracted and
rushed. Right before or after a vacation may not be the best time.
If you are angry, you may make your
employer angry. Calm down first. Don't let a particular concern open the
floodgates for all of your accumulated frustration.
If an employee sounds negative about
the company, the employer may get the idea that discussion is hopeless and the
employee should find another job.
Terrible disputes can result when
neither the employer nor his subordinates know what is on the other person's
mind. Sometimes a problem will go away when the issues are made clear. As the
employee, you must get your point across clearly. When you disagree with your
supervisor, share your ideas in writing. This helps to focus the issue.
If you cannot propose an immediate solution,
at least suggest how to approach the problem. If you are a person who
frequently presents problems without solutions to your supervisor, you may find
that you cannot get past the secretary.
To deal effectively with an
employer, it is important to consider his/her goals and pressures. If you can
put yourself in the position of being a partner to your employer, then the
employer will naturally be more inclined to work with you to achieve your
goals.
Remember that your supervisor holds
all the cards and pushing a dispute too far may cause problems far beyond the
subject at hand. Be sensible. Remember: You can always be fired!
MODULE
22: STUDENT ACTIVITIES
TO THE STUDENT: After
you have read and studied the Information sheet, answer the following
questions.
1. Define
communication.
2. List
the six (6) rules of communicating with your employer.
3. Choose one of the six rules and write a brief
essay describing a situation where you followed the rule and communicated
appropriately with your employer. (Use additional sheets for your essay.)
TRUE OR FALSE
4. ___ a. You can barge into your supervisor's office whenever you have a real problem.
___ b.
Your supervisor's secretary is a good judge of his/her moods.
___ c. It is a good idea to write down your thoughts before you confront your employer.
___ d.
Just before lunch is a good time to talk to your employer about your
problems.
___ e.
The employer holds all the cards.
MODULE 22: STANDARDS ADDRESSED IN
THIS MODULE
13.3.11. Career
Retention (Keeping a Job)
A. Analyze work habits needed to advance within a career.
B. Evaluate conflict resolution skills:
·
Constructive
criticism
·
Group dynamics
·
Managing
·
Mediation
·
Negotiation
·
Problem solving
Pennsylvania’s
Academic Standards for Reading, Writing, Speaking and Listening (RWSL)
1.1.11. Learning
to Read Independently
E. Establish a reading vocabulary by identifying and correctly using new words acquired through the study of their relationships to other words. Use a dictionary or related reference.
1.4.11.
Types of Writing
C. Write persuasive pieces.
· Include a clearly stated position or opinion.
· Include convincing, elaborated and properly cited evidence.
· Develop reader interest.
· Anticipate and counter reader concerns and arguments.
· Include a variety of methods to advance the argument or position.
1.5.11. Quality
of Writing
A. Write with a sharp, distinct focus.
· Identify topic, task and audience.
· Establish and maintain a single point of view.
B. Write using well-developed content appropriate for the topic.
· Gather, determine validity and reliability of, analyze and organize information.
· Employ the most effective format for purpose and audience.
· Write fully developed paragraphs that have details and information specific to the topic and relevant to the focus.
F. Edit writing using the conventions of language.
· Spell all words correctly.
· Use capital letters correctly.
· Punctuate correctly (periods, exclamation points, question marks, commas, quotation marks, apostrophes, colons, semicolons, parentheses, hyphens, brackets, ellipses).
· Use nouns, pronouns, verbs, adjectives, adverbs, conjunctions, prepositions and interjections properly.
· Use complete sentences (simple, compound, complex, declarative, interrogative, exclamatory and imperative).
Sociability: Demonstrates understanding, friendliness,
adaptability, empathy, and politeness in new and ongoing group settings.
Interpersonal: Works well with others, including being skilled
team members and negotiating with others to solve problems or reach decisions.
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